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I help you deliver the best speech of your life. Thoughts and instruction on speaking, storytelling and how to have fun on stage Also, I think exclamation points are stupid
September 10, 2025 hey team, It's football season here in the US. And there I was Sunday night, watching the premiere game of the weekend: Bills - Ravens. Playoff rematch, past two MVPs, all kinds of hype. I'm sure everyone else was fixated on the two quarterbacks, but when the Bills are on, I'm watching the coach, Sean McDermott.Why?Because my dad was his guidance counselor. I learned this a few years back. Here’s the relevant text exchange with dad: This was a student from 30+ years ago. He...
August 29, 2025 hey team, Jess and I want solar panels on the house. We thought this would be as easy as saying: "I want solar panels!" And someone showing up saying: "Here are your solar panels!" Instead, I've found myself getting texts like this: Know what any of that means? Neither do I. Those are texts from two different guys at two different companies. And boy do I wish either of them understood: your buddy Mike is not an engineer. If I knew as much about solar as these guys assumed, I’d...
August 14, 2025 You know what advice I used to give? Just be yourself on stage.It was good advice for a while. Until, trying to coach a speaker to open up, his reply was: But I am being myself. This is what I'm like.Oh. Sometimes the best speaking advice for Person A is woeful for Person B. The trick is, you usually can’t figure out which one applies when you’re the one holding the microphone. That’s exactly why working on speaking alone is so tough. You need someone else to see what you...